Things are often more complicated than you think. As a councillor, I have the privilege of meeting many people with diverse lived experiences. I was recently contacted by a parent, whom I’ll call Helen, who is deeply concerned for her trans child. Over a cup of coffee I heard first hand from Helen how the general culture and acceptance towards trans people has sadly declined, fuelled by populist parties whipping up fear either due to ignorance or to simply just for political gain. The changes resulting from the recent court ruling are having a tangible impact on her son’s well-being. Although he identifies and is recognised as a boy, he is now no longer permitted to use the male toilets and has been asked not to use the female toilets at school. Instead, the school has directed him to use the disabled unisex toilet. He is not disabled, and one can only imagine the message this sends to a child. Support charities are increasingly reporting more calls for help related to self-harm and suicide. What can be done to prevent this damaging polarisation? Education is a crucial first step. When you meet a trans person, it becomes clear that they are not figures to fear but just people who deserve dignity, respect, and often, simply our understanding and support.